http://teresiasblog.com/2010/01/11/give_yourself_the_gift_of_living/ Thu, 22 Jul 2010 18:06:44 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 http://teresiasblog.com/2010/01/11/give_yourself_the_gift_of_living/comment-page-1/#comment-151 Teresia Wed, 13 Jan 2010 23:12:49 +0000 http://teresiasblog.com/?p=113#comment-151 Hi Pat, Thank you for your question. I am happy to see that you are taking this concept of living a life aligned with your values seriously. There can be much joy when we get clear and make decisions around what we value most. You mention "I am very ambitious but I do not know where to put that energy to get the best out of it." Are you clear of your values? I encourage you to work through my ebook A new approach to goal setting - this is a step to step guide to help you get clear of your values. When you are clear of your values and you put your energy towards goals aligned with them, we achieve more with less effort. You mentioned you value family ( now not to confuse the topic of values but......) "family" is a means value - family will help you experience your "end" value which could be a sense of belonging, connection, community (end values are really what we are looking for). So if you value say connection (and you get this through spending time with family) your actions (goals) would reflect activities and commitments with your family. The first step is to get clear of your values and then decide what your goals are and how you want to spend your time. I hope this gave you more clarity. Work through a New approach to goal setting ebook to help you find your own answers. Warmly, Teresia Hi Pat,
Thank you for your question. I am happy to see that you are taking this concept of living a life aligned with your values seriously. There can be much joy when we get clear and make decisions around what we value most.
You mention “I am very ambitious but I do not know where to put that energy to get the best out of it.” Are you clear of your values? I encourage you to work through my ebook A new approach to goal setting – this is a step to step guide to help you get clear of your values. When you are clear of your values and you put your energy towards goals aligned with them, we achieve more with less effort.
You mentioned you value family ( now not to confuse the topic of values
but……) “family” is a means value – family will help you experience your “end” value which could be a sense of belonging, connection, community (end values are really what we are looking for).
So if you value say connection (and you get this through spending time with
family) your actions (goals) would reflect activities and commitments with your family. The first step is to get clear of your values and then decide what your goals are and how you want to spend your time.
I hope this gave you more clarity. Work through a New approach to goal setting ebook to help you find your own answers.
Warmly,
Teresia

]]> http://teresiasblog.com/2010/01/11/give_yourself_the_gift_of_living/comment-page-1/#comment-24 Pat Wed, 13 Jan 2010 22:36:06 +0000 http://teresiasblog.com/?p=113#comment-24 Hi Teresia, I keep reading and hearing all about living with your values. This is all very confusing to me. I value my family and health, what do I need to do to live a more fulfilling live. A life of extraordinary satisfaction and fulfillment. I am going nuts trying to figure this out. Liveing a life aligned with me, what exactly does that mean? I want nice things, money, a fulfilling career, how do I get those things? I am very ambitious but I do not know where to put that energy to get the best out of it. I hope you read this and will be able to help me find my own answers. Thank you, Pat Hi Teresia,
I keep reading and hearing all about living with your values. This is all very confusing to me. I value my family and health, what do I need to do to live a more fulfilling live. A life of extraordinary satisfaction and fulfillment. I am going nuts trying to figure this out. Liveing a life aligned with me, what exactly does that mean? I want nice things, money, a fulfilling career, how do I get those things? I am very ambitious but I do not know where to put that energy to get the best out of it.
I hope you read this and will be able to help me find my own answers.
Thank you,
Pat

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